We’re getting married! We can’t wait to celebrate this special moment with our favorite people. Thank you for being part of our journey—let the celebration begin! – TJ & Duane 💍✨

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TJ & Duane

October 18, 2025 • Lodi, NY

TJ & Duane

October 18, 2025 • Lodi, NY

Q + A

What should I wear?

Dressy casual for the Friday BBQ and semi-formal attire for the wedding on Saturday. The ceremony and reception will take place outdoors and indoors with beautiful vineyard views, so dress comfortably—but make it celebratory!

Is transportation provided?

We are doing our best to coordinate rides for guests staying nearby. Please share your preferred pick-up location—while we can’t guarantee transportation for everyone, we’ll try to accommodate as many as possible.

Are kids welcome?

While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration for the ceremony and reception. However, kids are welcome to the BBQ and for other festivities throughout the weekend! We thank you for your understanding and helping us create a relaxed atmosphere.

What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

The ceremony begins at 5:30 PM sharp on Saturday. We recommend arriving by 5:00 PM to get settled and find your seat.

Where should I stay?

See the “Travel & Lodging” section for details. The wedding party and immediate family will be staying at Single Island Shores, which is also the site of the Friday night BBQ.