TJ & Duane Home Page Banner

We’re getting married! We can’t wait to celebrate this special moment with our favorite people. Thank you for being part of our journey—let the celebration begin! – TJ & Duane 💍✨

Top Theme Image
Top Theme Image

TJ & Duane

October 18, 2025 • Lodi, NY

TJ & Duane

October 18, 2025 • Lodi, NY

T&D

TJ & Duane Home Page Banner
October 18, 2025
Lodi
NY

Friday Night “Wedding Roast”

Friday, October 17, 2025
6:00 PM–9:00 PM
Single Island Shores
5761 Rabbit Run Road, Hector, NY, 14841, United States
Attire: Casual
Let’s kick things off with a relaxed BBQ and an evening of roasts, toasts, and laughter with family and friends. We invite you to share your funniest (and most lovingly embarrassing) stories about the bride and groom. Food will be served, jokes will fly, and memories will be made! Dinner: BBQ favorites Mood: Light-hearted and full of fun https://singleislandshores.com

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

October 18, 2025
5:30 PM–11:00 PM
The Ginny Lee Cafe at Wagner Vineyards
9322 State Route 414, Lodi, NY, 14860
Attire: Cocktail+
Join us as we exchange vows surrounded by the vineyards and the people we love most, followed by dinner, drinks, and dancing the night away!

5:30 PM–6:00 PM

Ceremony

Ginny Lee Cafe
9322 State Route 414, Lodi, NY, 14860

6:00 PM–11:00 PM

Reception

Ginny Lee Cafe
9322 State Route 414, Lodi, NY, 14860

After Party

Saturday, October 18, 2025
11:00 PM–1:00 AM
Single Island Shores
5761 Rabbit Run Road, Hector, NY, 14841, United States
The night isn’t over just yet! After the reception, please join us for a relaxed after-party by the fire pit filled with good music, late-night snacks, and even better company. https://singleislandshores.com

Sunday Brunch

Sunday, October 19, 2025
10:00 AM–12:00 PM
Single Island Shores
5761 Rabbit Run Road, Hector, NY, 14841, United States
Attire: Casual
Farewell Brunch Join us on Sunday from 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM for a casual brunch with the bride and groom before everyone heads home. It’s a simple, relaxed way to share one last hug, a cup of coffee, and a quick goodbye. Please don’t feel pressured to stay if you need to get on the road — we’ll be sending you off with love either way!
photo

Our Story

Picture of Our Story

It all began on February 18, 2019—a first date that almost didn’t happen if one of us hadn’t practiced a little patience (we won’t name names… but let’s just say it wasn’t TJ!).

From the moment they met, TJ felt something extraordinary. She fell head over heels almost instantly, knowing deep down that this was something rare and real. Duane—ever the careful one—took a little longer to arrive at that same place, but once he did, their love truly began to bloom.

As time passed, something even more beautiful unfolded: Duane and Liam built a bond that was nothing short of magical, growing into a father-son relationship rooted in trust, laughter, and love. And with the sweet, floppy-eared Willow rounding out the crew, they became the family they were always meant to be.

Now, with hearts full and hands held tight, they’re ready to make it official—and to celebrate the journey that brought them here with the people who mean the most.